The Power of Narrative Intelligence: A Conversation with Christina Blacken
In today's world, where leadership is a practice, not just a title, effective communication has never been more crucial. Dr. Nika White recently sat down Christina Blacken, a storytelling expert and founder of The New Quo, on the latest episode of Intentional Conversations to delve into the power of narrative intelligence and its impact on building trust, fostering empathy and driving meaningful change.
The Narrative Undercurrent
Our personal stories shape how we interact with others and set our goals. Christina emphasizes that storytelling isn't just about sharing anecdotes; it's about harnessing the power of narrative to build bridges, connect with empathy, and create positive change.
However, it's equally important to acknowledge inaccurate narratives that can create a toxic culture. These often stem from unconscious "negative narrative making," a pattern we fall into without realizing. Christina suggests shifting from criticism to curiosity, slowing down the process, and approaching situations with a genuine desire to understand.
Leadership Through Vulnerability
Leadership is about creating a safe space for trust. Storytelling becomes your most powerful tool for achieving this. By sharing your vulnerabilities, experiences, and struggles, you demonstrate authenticity and encourage others to do the same. This fosters genuine connection and allows people to see beyond the "title" to the human being leading them.
Building a Culture of Change
Change management becomes significantly easier when leaders embrace storytelling. Clearly articulating the "why" behind the change, tying it back to company values, and using personal narratives to illustrate the positive outcomes can help everyone get on board.
Crafting Your Story Bank
Telling powerful stories requires intentionality. Christina suggests building a "story bank" based on lived experiences representing your origin story, the adversities you faced, and your successes. This allows you to choose the right story for the situation, focusing on emotional outcomes, self-awareness, empathy, and influence.
Overcoming Storytelling Obstacles
Many leaders struggle to tap into their storytelling power. Christina offers practical tips:
- Be an active consumer. The media you consume shapes your internal narratives. Choose content that inspires positive storytelling techniques.
- Practice makes perfect. Start by identifying your core values and building a storytelling framework around them. Recognize the values in your everyday experiences.
- Embrace authenticity. Don't gloss over struggles. Genuine connection comes from sharing the whole picture.
- Listen with intention. Practice "narrative transport" – putting yourself in the speaker's shoes to deepen your empathy.
- Create a safe space. Psychological safety is crucial for compelling storytelling. Affirm what you hear, avoid defensiveness, and focus on building trust.
The Ripple Effect of Intentionality
Leaders can create a more positive and productive work environment by consciously applying narrative intelligence. As Christina emphasizes, slowing down the stories you assume about others and asking better questions can spark incredible changes within your team.
Ready to Leverage the Power of Narrative Intelligence?
We invite you to watch the entire conversation with Christina Blacken on the Intentional Conversations YouTube channel. Additionally, explore Christina's LinkedIn Learning course, "Nano Tips for Powerful Leadership Storytelling," for a deeper dive into this crucial leadership skill.
Remember, leadership is a journey, not a destination. Start building your story bank today and watch its positive impact on your team, your organization, and yourself.
Intentional Conversations
is a weekly podcast by Nika White Consulting that intersects diversity, equity, and inclusion dialogue with leadership and business. Click here to register to attend the live sessions each Friday from 11 a.m. to 12 noon EST. You may also search
archives to view replays
of past episodes, or you can listen to the Intentional Conversations Podcast on your favorite platform.









